Romance

Then on January 1 1999 I sent out the following follow up:

"To my friends in cyberspace,
On December 7, I sent an e-mail to you proclaiming my Joy and Gratitude at the way my path was unfolding.

I am sending this message today, New Years Day 1999, to let you know that the Joy, Love, and gratitude that I was feeling that day now seems almost primitive compared to the levels I have accessed since then. Here is what I wrote in my snail mail mailing that I am sending out here in California.

"1998 has been a very interesting year for me. Lots of opportunities for growth and learning. Lots of chances to practice acceptance, patience, faith and all those other wonderful Spiritual Principles that have made it possible for me to have Peace and Joy in my life no matter what was happening on the outside. Early summer was especially painful as what seemed to be an opportunity to publish my next books evaporated in a slow painful way - but gave lots of opportunity to practice Letting Go. I moved back to the Central Coast (Morro Bay) in early fall and am very happy I did as this area feels much more like home to me. I am still going to Santa Barbara once a week to see clients - but am not sure at this point if that is going to be financially viable for much longer.

The past few months have seen some Truly amazing and wondrous changes in my life. In November I was feeling very blessed with the level of freedom I had attained to feel happy, Joyous, & peaceful in the moment no matter what the outer conditions. In December, years of work came to critical mass and I made a leap into hyperspace that opened my heart in a Truly amazing way. A paradigm shift occurred in my relationship with being in body on this physical plane that has unleashed an incredible flow of energy - either that or I am having a psychotic break. Whatever is happening, I LOVE being so ALIVE. 1999 is going to be an incredible, Magical, Joy filled year. Catch me while you can - my life has just started soaring."

There are not words to express to you how incredible and amazing the process is that I experienced in this last month. I am passionately ALIVE in a way that I could never have imagined. And I am not involved in the romantic relationship that I thought was developing on December 7th. The woman who I stated in that e-mail might be my dream woman, my twin soul - maybe is not.


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The way things unfolded was that she got scared that maybe she was repeating an old pattern and decided she needed to pull back. So now we are friends and may never be anything 'else' than that - (I first wrote 'more than that' and needed to change it because that seemed somehow to diminish the value of friendship as if there were something wrong with it not being 'more' - probably has to do with old tapes / dysfunctional cultural standards.) It is a really wonderful magical emotionally intimate relationship that I have gotten the gift of learning some absolutely magnificent lessons from - about letting go of what I wanted it to be for one thing.

There have been quite a few absolutely magnificent lessons that I have learned because of my interaction with this amazing being who I have been blessed to have come into my life as an angel and teacher and buddy - but probably the most important one has to do with Love - since Love and learning the True meaning of Love, is really what the path is all about.

I had the honor of being asked to write something to speak at a wedding yesterday (New Years Eve) which of course was a perfect part of my Spiritual adventure - this incredibly intricate and magnificent plan / process that is unfolding.

I got to speak there, in what I wrote, about the new level of understanding - gut level understanding instead of just theoretical - that my amazing friend has helped me to experience. Here are a few short excerpts from that wedding prayer that I wrote with the parts I am specifically referring to here in bold. (I think that this wedding prayer may be one of the most beautiful things I have ever written - I am very pleased with it.)

"You are together because you resonate on the same wave lengths, you fit together vibrationally, in such a way that together you form a powerful energy field that helps both of you access the Higher Vibrational Energy of Love, Joy, Light, and Truth - in a way that would be very difficult for either one of you to do by yourself. You are coming together to touch the face of God. You are uniting your energies to help you access the Love of the Holy Mother Source Energy.

You are not the source of each other's Love. You are helping each other to access the LOVE that is the Source.

The Love that you see when you see your soul in the others eyes is a reflection of the LOVE that you are. Of the Unconditional Love that the Great Spirit feels for you.

It is very important to remember that the other person is helping you to access God's LOVE within you - not giving you something that you have never had before."


"The Abundance of Love and Joy that you can help each other to feel by coming together - are vibrational levels that you then each will be able to access within yourself. You are helping each other to remember how to access that Love - helping each other to remember what it feels like and that Yes you do deserve it.

It is very important to remember that so that you can Let Go. Let Go of believing that the other person has to be in your life . . . ."

"The more you do your healing and follow your Spiritual path the more moments of each day you will have

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Stanton Peele's Approach

Stanton Peele has been investigating, thinking, and writing about addiction since 1969. His first bombshell book, Love and Addiction, appeared in 1975. Its experiential and environmental approach to addiction revolutionized thinking on the subject by indicating that addiction is not limited to narcotics, or to drugs at all and that addiction is a pattern of behavior and experience which is best understood by examining an individual's relationship with his/her world. This is a distinctly nonmedical approach. It views addiction as a general pattern of behavior that nearly everyone experiences in varying degrees at one time or another.

Viewed in this context, addiction is not unusual, although it can grow to overwhelming and life-defeating dimensions. It is not essentially a medical problem, but a problem of life. It is frequently encountered and very often overcome in people's lives - the failure to overcome addictions is the exception. It occurs for people who learn drug use or other destructive patterns as a way of gaining satisfaction in the absence of more functional ways of dealing with the world. Therefore, maturity, improved coping skills, and better self-management and self-regard all contribute to overcoming and preventing addiction.

"Addiction is a way of coping with life, of artificially attaining feelings and rewards people feel they cannot achieve in any other way. As such, it is no more a treatable medical problem than is unemployment, lack of coping skills, or degraded communities and despairing lives. The only remedy for addiction is for more people to have the resources, values and environments necessary for living productive lives. More treatment will not win our badly misguided war on drugs. It will only distract our attention from the real issues in addiction."

Stanton Peele, "Cures depend on attitude, not programs," Los Angeles Times, March 14, 1990.

What is the Stanton Peele's Approach. How does Stanton approaches substance addiction?

Stanton's approach puts him at odds with the American medical model of alcohol/drug abuse as a disease - one which is gaining acceptance worldwide. Everything about the disease approach - separating people and their substance use from their ongoing lives, not recognizing that addiction fades in and out with life conditions, viewing it as biogenetic in origin - is wrong, which Stanton strives to show throughout this website. The notion that drug and alcohol abuse are inevitably progressive, a holdover from the Temperance view, is one example of how modern addictionology is really moralistic and theological rather than scientific and pragmatic. The Stanton Peele Addiction Web Site (SPAWS) presents a range of novel and constructive solutions to policy, scientific, treatment, and personal problems that befuddle current approaches.

Stanton has managed to maintain his cutting-edge approaches and attitudes for more than a quarter century, involving himself in central issues of policy, treatment, education, theory, and research on addiction, drugs, and alcohol. SPAWS is replete with articles, debates, conflicts, and advice on problems that cover the gamut of drug, alcohol, and addiction policy. If you are concerned about behaviors that trouble you in yourself or loved ones, about policies towards drugs, about how people are treated for alcoholism, about whether substance abuse is genetic, about cultural variations in substance use and a thousand other current controversies, then Stanton's work is critical.


Stanton Peele's Ideas

The experiential, environmental approach leads to a range of radical ideas for approaching seemingly insoluble social problems concerning drugs, alcohol, and behavior. For example:

  • a science of addiction geared towards brain mechanisms, irrespective of life problems and experiences, is barking up the wrong tree and is doomed to fail;
  • self-cure is standard and occurs as people come to grips with the problems, people, and patterns in their lives;
  • as they do so, formerly problem users frequently learn to use the substance moderately, or at least with fewer problems;
  • treatment succeeds by helping people navigate their existence rather than by teaching them that they have an inbred, life-long malady;
  • most drinking and other substance use are not pathological;
  • how children learn to view substances largely determines whether they get stuck in drinking/drug use as a life-long destructive habit;
  • a completely negative educational approach to alcohol, as well as drugs, increases the likelihood children will encounter substance use problems;
  • the notion that substance use is a disease is simply the wrong way to prevent problems and to treat problems when these appear;
  • many activities which are correctly viewed as addictions - like compulsive shopping, gambling, sex - have incorrectly come to be treated as diseases;
  • one wrongheaded result of the whole disease conception of addiction is that society now often excuses people for criminal behaviors that are labelled as addictions or diseases (e.g., PMS, post-traumatic shock, post-partum depression in addition to alcoholism);
  • while it is correct instead to firmly punish drug- and alcohol-related misbehavior, the punishment of simple drug use - so-called "zero-tolerance" - is irrational and has been proven to be an expensive failure;
  • non-moralistic policies, education, and treatment that recognize that people may sometimes use drugs or alcohol, but that engage people in productive activity and assist people to overcome difficulties in their lives, will succeed better - and certainly disrupt society and the lives of users less - than our current policies and treatments.

The Addiction Experience

In Stanton's approach, addiction can be understood only in experiential terms. No biological mechanisms create addiction; no biological indicators detect addiction. People are addicted when they pursue a sensation or activity relentlessly and sacrifice other life alternatives to this pursuit, and when they cannot face existence without this one involvement. We know people are addicted by their behavior and experience: nothing else defines addiction.

Addiction must be understood in relation to an experience. This experience is defined, in part, by the nature of the substance or the involvement. For example, heroin produces an analgesic, depressant, and soporific experience; cocaine and cigarettes create a different variety of drug experience. Gambling produces an experience similar to the stimulant drugs, as does sexual excitement. An insecure love relationship can have elements of both depressant and stimulant experiences - hence its remarkable virulence.

The other elements that determine the addictive potential of an experience are the setting or environment in which it is undertaken, and the characteristics of the individual who undertakes it. This was driven home by the Vietnam experience, in which young men addicted to the pain-relieving experience of heroin in the Vietnam environment rejected the same experience stateside. Only some of these men - those more likely to have had a negative sense of their environment before going to Vietnam - continued to be susceptible to heroin addiction in the States.

The characteristics of an addictive experience (as perceived by a given individual in a specific environment) are as follows:

The experience

  • is powerful and all-encompassing,
  • inspires a sense of well-being by conveying an artificial sense of power and control, peace and insulation,
  • is valued for of its predictability, which makes it reassuring and thus "experientally safe,"
  • creates negative consequences that diminish the addict's awareness of and ability to relate to the rest of life.

When people - either in their lives generally of in particular life situations - cannot gain a necessary sense of power, control, safety, assurance, and predictability, they turn to and rely on addictive experiences.

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Introduction to Alcohol and Pleasure: A Health Perspective

Understanding the pleasure that alcohol produces and the role it plays in healthy and unhealthy drinking.

In order to understand the nature of the pleasure alcohol produces, and the role that pleasure plays in healthy and unhealthy drinking, Stanton organized the program for the conference, "Permission for Pleasure" for the International Center for Alcohol Policies. The volume from this conference has been published; Stanton contributed an Introduction to explain the need to examine pleasure in drinking and the resistance of public health professionals and authorities to doing so.

In: S. Peele & M. Grant (Eds.) (1999), Alcohol and pleasure: A health perspective, Philadelphia: Brunner/Mazel, pp. 1-7
© Copyright 1999 Stanton Peele. All rights reserved.

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Like the conference on which it is based, this book is designed to address the concept of pleasure in relation to beverage alcohol. Colloquially, pleasure seems to be an important ingredient in alcohol consumption. Yet it has rarely been incorporated in research or public health models. The book's aim is to bring together existing knowledge on the role of pleasure in drinking and to determine whether the concept is useful for scientific understanding and policy consideration by professionals in government, public health, research, and other fields, in both the developing and developed world, who are concerned with the consumption of alcohol.

Why Is This Topic Worthwhile?

Pleasure Is an Important Motivation for Drinking Alcohol

In their surveys of drinking behavior in the United States, the Alcohol Research Group has asked ordinary drinkers about their "experiences after drinking." Among current drinkers, by far the most common response was "felt happy and cheerful" (Cahalan, 1970, p. 131; see Brodsky & Peele, 1999). The Mass Observation studies begun in the 1940s questioned ordinary drinkers closely about their drinking experiences and expectations (Lowe, 1999; Mass Observation, 1943, 1948). Some focused on the contents of the beverage ("It tastes good"), some on the mood it engenders ("It relaxes me, makes me feel good"), some on the ritual or social elements ("I like relaxing at home over a drink" or "I like getting together with my mates and downing a few at the pub"). This straightforward approach of asking drinkers about their current motivations for and experiences of drinking is represented in expectancy research (Goldman et al., 1987; Leigh, 1999), including especially younger drinkers (Foxcroft & Lowe, 1991). Most people who consume alcohol indicate that they anticipate a positive change in experience from drinking, although this means different things for different groups.

Pleasure Plays a Role in Both Ordinary and Problematic Drinking

Cahalan (1970) divided drinkers into those who have never experienced problems from drinking, those who experienced such problems in the past but not at present, and those who experience substantial drinking problems currently. For all groups among both genders, pleasure (feeling happy and cheerful) remained the single most common drinking experience. More problem drinkers gave pleasure as a response to questions about drinking experiences, but they gave higher rates of response to every type of drinking experience and consequence. This may be because they drink more and have more of all such experiences. At the same time, pleasure may motivate both normal, social drinking and problematic drinking, but heavy or problem drinkers may define pleasure differently (Critchlow, 1986; Marlatt, 1999). Younger drinkers more often drink for effect than for ritual pleasure (Foxcroft & Lowe, 1991), although all drinkers emphasize the socially pleasurable functions of drinking (Lowe, 1999).

Issues to be Engaged

  1. Is pleasure a useful concept for explaining alcohol consumption?
  2. What distinguishes pleasure as a healthful or harmful motivation in drinking behavior?
  3. Can the concept of pleasure be used to encourage healthy drinking?

Why Are New Approaches to Alcohol Consumption Required?

Alcohol Consumption Will Always Be a Critical Public Health Issue Worldwide

Although the World Health Organization Regional Office for Europe (Edwards et al., 1994; WHO, 1993) and other health agencies worldwide have officially adopted reduced national alcohol consumption as a target, the elimination of all beverage alcohol is not a possibility, and even the goal of reduced consumption may be hard to achieve. In developed nations, alcohol consumption increased dramatically from about 1950 to the middle to late 1970s, although in the longer historical perspective, the 1970s were not an all-time high period of consumption (Musto, 1996). Following the 1970s, many, but far from all, developed countries showed decreases in consumption. However, "the more recent declines in consumption typical of many developed countries have not appeared in many developing nations," where consumption is still increasing (Smart, 1998, p. 27). Nonetheless, developing nations still consume less alcohol per capita than developed nations. Thus styles, patterns, and levels of consumption and motivations for drinking in relation to these questions will remain critical public health issues. This may be particularly so in developing nations, which have perhaps fewer moderating traditions and yet in which consumption is increasingly rapidly (see Odejide & Odejide, 1999).

Public Health Policy Ignores the Almost Universal Motivation to Drink

Although people at large seem to be strongly motivated to drink alcohol with expectations of positive effects (Leigh, 1999), this attraction to alcohol is largely ignored by the public health sector. What makes this apparent oversight more puzzling is that a large percentage of those involved in alcohol policy and research themselves drink—if drinking behavior evinced at the conference upon which this volume is based may be used as a yardstick. This suggests that personal or cultural ambivalence may be a worthwhile point for investigation, and may need to be confronted by policy professionals, as policies that ignore the almost universal motivation to consume alcohol face long odds against succeeding (Stockwell & Single, 1999).

Issues to be Engaged

  1. What is the impact of pleasure on the nature of and trends in drinking in the developing world, and does pleasure mean something different—have a different impact—there than in the developed world?
  2. What has prevented professionals from using pleasure as a policy tool and scientific concept and is this continuing lacuna detrimental?

Why Discuss Drinking and Pleasure Now?

Change and Stasis in the Alcohol Debate

The benefits of alcohol for coronary artery disease are now quite broadly accepted (Doll, 1997; Klatsky, 1999; WHO, 1994). The CAD benefits of moderate drinking may well prolong life (Poikolainen, 1995). Nonetheless, the debate persists over whether to present such benefits to the public (Skog, 1999), and notably concern that children should not be exposed to information about possible benefits of drinking. Thus, at the same time that the 1995 U.S. Dietary Guidelines (U.S. Department of Agriculture/Department of Health and Human Services, 1995) discussed coronary-disease benefits of alcohol consumption, as did the British sensible drinking guidelines (Department of Health and Social Security, 1995) and standards established by other Western nations (International Center for Alcohol Policies, 1996a, 1996b), this discussion is still controversial. Already, interest groups have mounted campaigns to reverse the language in the U.S. Guidelines when these are reconsidered after 5 years, just as the current guidelines reversed those from 5 years earlier.

Current Approaches Towards Alcohol are Almost Totally Problem-Oriented

This is the end process of a long period in the U.S. and worldwide of identifying and addressing the problematic nature of alcohol consumption. And while there may still be room to extend this problem focus to new groups, and to deepen the depiction of the severity of worldwide drinking problems, we have proceeded quite a long way in this direction. At the same time, in the West and much of the rest of the world, alcohol production and consumption is legal, commercially marketed, and informally encouraged. Thus, considerable contention is built into the consideration of beverage alcohol. Yet, the possibility of broad agreement also seem attainable in the establishment of benefits from drinking among public health advocates, while alcohol producers recognize that problem drinking leads to serious and widespread social and health consequences.

One recent development that suggests the value of pleasure as a public health concept is the health-economics conception of quality of life as a measurable and important ingredient in health (Nussbaum & Sen, 1993; Orley, 1999). For health economists, years survived alone do not describe the outcome of a disease event or intervention (Orley, 1994). Pleasure may be one reflection of quality-of-life considerations in drinking decision making and outcomes. To suggest this is to be conscious of the great differences in the apparent enjoyment of drinking events—from a shouting, angry public inebriate, to a person guiltily sneaking a drink alone, to a person drinking pleasantly in a shared experience within the family or with friends, for instance. These differences are reflected in cross-cultural, national, and group differences in the experience of alcohol, suggesting they can be detailed and utilized (Douglas, 1987; Hartford & Gaines, 1982; Heath, 1995, 1999).

Issues to be Engaged

  1. Does an understanding of pleasure in drinking offer a route to moderate polarization in views on the role of alcohol in society?
  2. Can important individual, group, cultural, and situational differences in the pleasure of drinking experiences be understood and related to positive outcomes so that these can be encouraged as a part of health policies?

Why a Conference?

This volume is based on a conference, one that seemed exciting and novel. The rationale for the conference was to explore a broad topic not thoroughly examined previously, to expose and interpret existing research related to the topic, and to outline the state of knowledge and areas where future investigation is necessary. Since it is unlikely that the evidence on the conference topics covered in this volume will prove definitive, it is important to air different perspectives and interpretations in order to see whether a new approach appears to be fruitful and deserves further attention. Among the topics the conference opened for discussion are the following:

  • The meaning of pleasure in cultural context: How do people define pleasure? How central a motivator is pleasure for them? Are there differences in the definitions and importance of pleasure in different cultures (East v. West, for example; see Sharma & Mohan, 1999; Shinfuku, 1999)? Is pleasure useful as a health concept (see David, 1999)?
  • Pleasure and drinking: How do people define pleasure in relation to drinking? Are there differences in pleasurable drinking levels and styles according to situation (e.g., wedding v. fraternity party; see Single & Pomeroy, 1999), group (e.g., male v. female; see Camargo, 1999; Nadeau, 1999), or culture (e.g., Nordic v. Mediterranean; see Heath, 1999)? How do people vary in their expectations of pleasure when drinking (see Leigh, 1999)? Do differences in views of pleasure and its association with drinking explain different patterns of drinking (see Marlatt, 1999)?
  • Pleasure and public health: Is pleasure a worthwhile goal to encourage in drinkers? How does pleasurable drinking affect the likelihood drinking problems (see Peele, 1999)? Does pleasure offer a point of departure for respecting cultural differences (see Asare, 1999; MacDonald & Molamu, 1999; Rosovksy, 1999), for offering drinkers with different values a way to orient and control their drinking (see Kalucy, 1999), for communicating effectively with drinkers (see Stockwell & Single, 1999)? How does the consideration of pleasure in drinking policy affect individuals, educators, families, clinicians, communities, nations, and the planet as a whole (see Peele, 1999)?

Conclusion

After a longstanding period of public health attention to alcohol, one primarily concerned with the problematic aspects of drinking, alcohol consumption remains both a major public health concern and a popular, widespread, and irreducible activity. Even the sternest public health advocates cannot reasonably expect to eliminate or indefinitely reduce drinking worldwide, nor do the data clearly show that such a goal would produce a public health gain. It is clearly established, for example, that drinking is associated with reduced heart disease epidemiologically in all parts of the Western world (Criqui & Ringel, 1994).

Pleasure in drinking is an understudied phenomenon. In addition to its appeal as a lay explanation for drinking, measurement efforts also indicate it is the primary goal in alcohol consumption. This volume and the conference on which it is based propose that enhancing our understanding of conceptions and differences in conceptions of pleasure, the actual role of pleasure as a motivator, and pleasure as a communication and a public health tool could advance our understanding of and ability to deal with beverage alcohol.


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How to Have More Life in Your Time

TELEVISION IS A GREAT device for creating a little diversion when you want to give your mind a break. It's one of the few things we can do that doesn't present any challenge whatsoever. The problem is, the people who design the programming and the commercials don't want you to just take a little break and get back to living. They want you to keep watching. And over the years, they've developed hundreds of effective techniques to keep us hooked, and they're getting better at it all the time.

Studies at the University of Chicago found that when people are engaged in an activity like reading, talking, or pursuing a hobby, they become happier. Research also shows that the longer a person sits in front of a TV, the more irritable and dissatisfied they become. TV is entertaining, but it presents no challenge. Our minds and bodies start going stir crazy without a challenge. That's bad enough, but on top of that, commercials are specifically designed to make you feel dissatisfied (so you will buy their product to satisfy your "need").

You've got better things to do. If you want to gain more freedom from your television, try one of these ideas:

  1. For one month, only watch videos no TV with its seductive and addictive programming.
  2. Cancel your cable: You'll save money and you'll have fewer stations to entice you.
  3. Unplug the TV for a week.

Everyone in your household may thrash about like an addict in withdrawal, but hold firm and you'll see something remarkable: more human interaction, more walks together at sunset, more pursuits of hobbies, more reading. These are all things that aren't as easy as TV, but are more satisfying and rejuvenating.

Wean yourself away from your TV. Make it merely a peripheral activity something you do once in awhile. Try one of the ideas above to protect yourself from the carefully-designed-to-be-addictive programming. You'll be glad you did.

Watch TV only once in awhile.

Here's a conversational chapter on optimism from a future book:
Conversation on Optimism


 


If worry is a problem for you, or even if you would like to simply worry less even though you don't worry that much, you might like to read this:
The Ocelot Blues

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Thoughtical Illusions

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Staff, H. (2009, January 5). How to Have More Life in Your Time, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/self-help/self-help-stuff-that-works/how-to-have-more-life-in-your-time

Last Updated: March 31, 2016

Do Antidepressants Work?

Stanton,

Stanton Peele answers a question about antidepressants to help with depression and addiction.Do you think that the whole seratonin transmitter thing is totally wrong regarding depression? I have suffered from depression for at least thirty years. And I've been through therapy, AA and whatever else I could do to self help myself. What a bunch of crap!

Modern antidepressants work for me and although I don't like being a human guinee pig I prefer these pills to that wretched state of mind. Anything is better then that! William Styron describes his depression quite well although he didn't experience depression until he was in his sixties. His book, written in the 80's is called Darkness Visable. Although I've been going through depressions for many years I like Styron's descriptions. Good writing.

Are you a social scientist without even a thought to harmones or brain chemistry. I don't like genetics being used as an excuse for behavior. And I certainly don't buy the twinkie, prozac, maniac defense. I hope you are more openminded then someone who discounts brain chemistry in favor of psychology. I hope you are just trying to cut thru the whole criminal, excuse, and moron team. I agree if that is your intent.

PMS is real, and so is menopause. Do you think that all of our problems stem from our upbringing? If so, why do antidepressants work for me? I can talk until...forever but antidepressants work for me better.

LF


Dear LF:

You seem to want to have me okay your antidepressant use — but there is someone whose position on the matter might cause you even more discomfort — William Styron. Although he was highly committed to believing his depression was a preordained biological disease, he was virulently anti antidepressants (meaning they did nothing at all for him). Basically, his antidote for depression was bed rest. I personally find Styron's memoir of madness, Darkness Visible, a book by a man sadly lacking in insight looking for reasons for his misery.

Whether antidepressants have an effect, how much of an effect, for which people, and with what consequences are debatable questions. Looking only at controlled studies using active placebos (those that are not obviously identifiable as inert by patients), few — if any — differences are found between placebo and antidepressants. Patient and therapist attitudes have been found to be critical to responses to these drugs (as well as to virtually all other classes of psychotropic drugs). The best source for this information is the volume, From Placebo to Panacea: Putting Psychiatric Drugs to the Test, edited by Seymour Fisher and Roger Greenberg.

If you tell me that you find antidepressants helpful to you, I say, "go with what works." If you want to explore the meaning of your life, I say, "look at the literature on antidepressants, examine your beliefs, and approach the sources of your depression openly and critically." Of course, it might be that questioning your antidepressants could harm their efficacy for you. But, tell me, have you not had to vary your doses and brands of antidepressants over the years? I know of virtually no one who has found antidepressants to remain uniformly helpful without significant variations in administration practices — like (forgive me) drug addicts and alcoholics I know who are always looking for the right "titration" to reach the optimal high with the least downside from their drug of choice.

You have grown disillusioned with AA. It was a blind alley ultimately. Why was that? Can one discount AA's version of reality (that alcoholism is a disease) and accept depression is a real disease? Or are the ventures to free oneself of biologically deterministic views of the causes of human behavior and emotion in these two areas related? Do you now feel that the disease of alcoholism was a misdiagnosis for another disease (as Kitty Dukakis claimed John Wallace and his staff at the Edgehill Newport Hospital misdiagnosed her manic-depression)? I don't know the ultimate causes of your problems, but I do believe that one's views of these problems and their sources have personal consequences.

Stanton


Dear Stanton:

I do notice that there is a kind of immunity or tolerance that may be building up over time. I did get very depressed once while still on my medication...

I don't view alcohol addiction as a disease. Alcohol abuse causes diseases. But it's different than depression in that we actually have to do something--from the outside in--like drink too much--and with depression nothing needs to be done. There are people who have had great careers and great lives, or so it would seem, and they can be seriously depressed to the point of not being able to function. I don't claim to thoroughly understand that since I am not yet successful in any career, and I have no children, or as the old saying goes...a pot to....But I do have some good friends. I don't really view depression as a disease either but it can be fatal and although there our outside stresses that can exassperate it (such as drinking alcohol to excess since it is a depressant) essentially it is not as easily controlled as alcohol abuse. I mean we can stop abusing alcohol....


Dear [...]

You came across great. I admire a serious and thoughtful person, trying to come to grips with their lives.

If anyone were to come to me for any advice, I would recommend trying to use their intelligence for job, career, family, and ... those kind of things. I like to consult with people to achieve success. It makes me feel good, and sometimes them.

Stanton

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Staff, H. (2009, January 5). Do Antidepressants Work?, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/addictions/articles/do-antidepressants-work

Last Updated: June 27, 2016

The Legal Ramifications of Internet Addiction

The credibility of Internet addiction has become a legal issue in both civil and criminal courts. The president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers indicated that there has been a notable rise in the number of divorce cases involving cyberaffairs and online addiction over the past year. Furthermore, the issue of Internet addiction has played a significant role in child custody hearings. Frequently, such Internet abuse leads to neglectful behavior on the part of the custodial parent, often times the mother, leaving the non-custodial parent to fight for full custody. Finally, criminal courts have seen a rise in the number of cases involving sexual misconduct, online pedophilia, online child pornography, and cybersexual addiction. These cases usually evaluate the role of electronic anonymity in the development of deviant, deceptive, or criminal acts.

Dr. Kimberly Young, Founder and President of the Center for Internet Addiction Recovery, has provided forensic consultation in the following ways:

  • Conducted psychological evaluations for clients suspected of being addicted to the Internet.
  • Provided written affidavits to support the scientific validity of Internet addiction.
  • Provided expert testimony to support the scientific validity of Internet addiction.

Dr. Young has testified at a Daubert Hearing held in Wheeling, West Virginia in the case of The State vs. Russell. The trial court is vested with the authority and responsibilities to serve as "gatekeeper" of evidences to screen scientific theories to make sure they are scientifically valid and reliable. The vast majority of scientific theories, usually medical, are typically not challenged as being unreliable and are admissible through judicial notice; however, the newness of Internet addiction may facilitate a Daubert Hearing to determine its scientific validity. The theory was accepted in this case and will be persuasive to other courts.

To contact Dr. Young:

Center for Internet Addiction Recovery
P.O. Box 72
Bradford, PA 16701
814-451-2405 phone
814-368-9560 fax

An article in the Los Angeles Times (1/22/99) explored the new type of Cyber-crime: "Man charged under new cyber-stalking law:"

"A North Hollywood man has become the first perpetrator to be prosecuted under California's new cyber-stalking law. Gary S. Dellapenta, a 50-year-old security guard, has been charged with stalking, computer fraud and solicitation of sexual assault. After his romantic advances were rebuffed by a woman he met at church, he proceeded to post ads in her name on America Online, Hotmail and other Internet sites that described fantasies of being gang-raped. When people responded, he revealed personal information about her, from the address of her apartment to her physical description, her phone number and how to bypass her home security system. Law enforcement officials have predicted that such crimes will proliferate, aided by the decrease in personal privacy and the anonymity of cyberspace."



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Last Updated: June 24, 2016

What Do You Think of SMART Recovery?

Dear Stanton:

What are your opinions about Smart Recovery? Jack Trimpey's AA Bashing was/is opposed by the Smart Recovery Board, but now there is a ground swell of "Let's give it back to them." What are your opinions about this?

Dick Brockman


Dick:

I'm on the scientific advisory board of SMART, but I welcome all input. You sound well-informed. Tell me where you're at and what you think is going on and your reactions to it.

Stanton


Stanton:

I am here in Texas, Fort Worth, which has been in the heartland of AA country since the beginning. We have the largest Baptist Seminary here and major beliefs that Smart Recovery is probably sinful because it is Ungodly! Albert Ellis is of course an Atheist, ergo REBT can not be abided. Well, not really — we have some enlightened folk here, but the majority are so hard core AA that you can barely talk to them about alternatives to AA without them covering their ears and humming to drown out the anathema. I have been a maverick for many years and was an enthusiastic supporter of Jack's from the beginning and was one of the first Certified Rational Recovery Specialists. We met when he was in our area and he, Lois and I appeared to get along fine. I licensed my agency to be called a Rational Recovery Agency and I was going about giving talks about RR as an alternative to AA for a long time. Then Jack appeared to go off the deep end and do exactly what he criticized AA folks for — saying that the only ones who could help are those who have had the problem and since I am not a recovering anything, I fell out of grace and finally said enough of this Non-Rational Thinking. I was very glad to see SMART Recovery get off the ground and now we carry that banner and have a meeting at our facility weekly.

addiction-articles-54-healthyplaceF.A.C.T.S. is a non-profit agency I started in 1985 with one of my professors, since retired, and we specialize in Family Violence, Anger and Substance Abuse. I am a twenty year retired Air Force Officer, who specialized in Substance Abuse Education and Rehabilitation and Equal Opportunity in the Service. At that time I believed all the propaganda and said the AA was the only way, but was always doubting this. When I retired I went back to school for more Degrees (Social Work) and training and got turned on by REBT and the reasonableness of identifying problems based upon thinking rather than powerlessness, loss of control and higher powers. This whole process fit into our organization with regards to the "Batterers Intervention Programs" and "Anger Control Program" which we have developed. We are again on the outside of some of the approved thinking in these areas, because we are not "Object Relations" oriented, and do not attribute these problems to Unattached or Unbonded childhood experiences. I was trained in this process, especially in Rage Reduction Therapy, by Foster Cline, MD of the Evergreen Associates program in Colorado. In most all these programs people are trying to find the cause or justify the behavior and I find that to be either bullshit or a waste of time. What are we going to do about the behavior? Substance abuse is probably the easiest to measure in that quantities, number of times, and outcomes can be measured, but not by the AA method — a behavioral problem, attributed to a medical disease and cured by a spiritual method!

So anyway! The latest newsletter from SMART Recovery had articles about the abuse we have taken from AAers and Vince Fox's articles about how we should stop being the nice guys and start bashing back. I asked your opinion because I respect you authorship and reasoning and argumentation. I have trained with Albert Ellis in four programs and Michelor Bishop and, although this is my philosophy in general, I can not altogether agree with him and Michelor on the idea that REBT can co-exist with the Twelve Step Approach and that we should be nice guys about the whole affair. The only time I have found acceptance from the Twelve Step Community is if I agree that REBT and Twelve Step can work together. I am a purist in that I can not abide by the Irrational thinking of the Twelve Steps and see how I can agree with them in my therapy. It is rather like you have pointed out in your books and articles, not necessarily in this manner but, if it's bullshit, it's bullshit!

So there you have small input of what I think is going on. I believe that the nice guy approach has not really worked with the Twelve Steppers, although the Criminal Justice System is siding with us more and more and not supporting the AA approach as strongly as in the past. I am frustrated that things are not going as fast as I want them to go. I recognize that this frustration is my making and I can handle that.

I am always looking to learn and improve my mind and do research in these areas. I read a lot and have read several of your works and agree with what you believe. I appreciate your answering me so quickly.

Dick


Dear Dick:

I like the cut of your jib (even if you were in the Air Force)! I hate it when military guys are irrational — I thought that was their primary professional claim — that they see through the bullshit.

Anyhow, I liked the story of your Odyssey very much. You hang out there, do what you think is right, take heat, and roll with the punches. You might actually be doing some good! (Every once in a while, I read something that makes me think psychology works. Like, in the book Fatal Vision, when the defense attorney brings the murderer, Captain MacDonald, to a psychologist for testing, and the guy gets MacDonald to a T! Says he can't comprehend anyone's feelings outside his own, and views any interference with his urges as a personal assault that he feel he can eliminate as he chooses.)

Your experiences with Jack are, of course, fascinating and consistent with those of others. (Have you seen the section on my website where Jack accuses me of being the devil?) I admire your ability to float with the punches and to come out swinging. I admire your nondogmatic, sensible approach to things (I don't even know what "Object Relations" are, but they are obviously bullshit). And you tell me you're making headway within the criminal justice system. I would hope that a guy with a military background could swing a little weight there.

Meanwhile, you may know that my main problem with SMART Recovery is that most human beings in the world are struggling to continue using, and most will continue to do so. So I wish there was a group that dealt with the majority of people — even including those who keep using without much reduction in use, but who could nonetheless still improve their lives and eventually get in a position to ameliorate or eliminate their substance abuse (I'm talking harm reduction).

As for the particular dispute you describe, between the appeasers and the warriors (a la Vincent Fox), my natural disposition is very much, like you, on the side of the latter. It's just laziness and fear of doing battle with those crazy AAers that makes Albert Ellis (whom I know slightly) accept their bullshit (this, from a man whose favorite analytic phrase over the decades has been "bullshit"). But, I found myself agreeing with the accommodators as well — why look for problems when you just are offering to expand the array of services? I can't argue with someone who takes a peaceful approach to reform. And, I might add, sometimes people liken my battling ways to Jack's, and I don't want that as my epitaph.

Keep in touch. Make headway. Get in trouble. These are the words I live by.

Stanton

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Last Updated: June 27, 2016

Drug Abstinence Contingencies and Vouchers

Innovative day treatment program for homeless crack addicts makes work and housing dependent upon drug abstinence.

Day Treatment With Abstinence Contingencies and Vouchers

Innovative day treatment program for homeless crack addicts makes work and housing dependent upon drug abstinence.Was developed to treat homeless crack addicts. For the first 2 months, participants must spend 5.5 hours daily in the program, which provides lunch and transportation to and from shelters. Interventions include individual assessment and goal setting, individual and group counseling, multiple psychoeducational groups (for example, didactic groups on community resources, housing, cocaine, and HIV/AIDS prevention; establishing and reviewing personal rehabilitation goals; relapse prevention; weekend planning), and patient-governed community meetings during which patients review contract goals and provide support and encouragement to each other.

Individual counseling occurs once a week, and group therapy sessions are held three times a week. After 2 months of day treatment and at least 2 weeks of abstinence, participants graduate to a 4-month work component that pays wages that can be used to rent inexpensive, drug-free housing. A voucher system also rewards drug-free related social and recreational activities.

This innovative day treatment was compared with treatment consisting of twice-weekly individual counseling and 12-step groups, medical examinations and treatment, and referral to community resources for housing and vocational services. Innovative day treatment followed by work and housing dependent upon drug abstinence had a more positive effect on alcohol use, cocaine use, and days homeless.

References:

Milby, J.B.; Schumacher, J.E.; Raczynski, J.M.; Caldwell, E.; Engle, M.; Michael, M.; and Carr, J. Sufficient conditions for effective treatment of substance abusing homeless. Drug & Alcohol Dependence 43: 39-47, 1996.

Milby, J.B.; Schumacher, J.E.; McNamara, C.; Wallace, D.; McGill, T.; Stange, D.; and Michael, M. Abstinence contingent housing enhances day treatment for homeless cocaine abusers. National Institute on Drug Abuse Research Monograph Series 174, Problems of Drug Dependence: Proceedings of the 58th Annual Scientific Meeting. The College on Problems of Drug Dependence, Inc., 1996.

Source: National Institute of Drug Abuse, "Principles of Drug Addiction Treatment: A Research Based Guide."

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Last Updated: April 26, 2019

Natural Alternatives: Nikken Sleep Systems, Nux Vomica for Treating ADHD

Parents share stories about Nikken sleep systems and Nux Vomica, a homeopathic remedy for treating ADHD.

Natural Alternatives for ADHD

Nikken Sleep Systems

Kim sent us the following information about this......

"My son is using a nikken kenko mattress pad, intellerest magnetic pillow, and magnetic shoe insoles. All of these products are 100% magnetic coverage. They also have a special triangular patent that no one else can copy. The triangular design means that the magnetic energy can travel to every nerve ending. These products are wonderful. And they have given me a new son, one who listens and actually hears you when you talk to him. Also his teachers are very impressed with his change in grades.

If you want to look up these products for yourself, go to http://www.nikken.com/. This will show you all the products available. They also have nutritionals to help.

My son isn't taking the nutritionals because he doesn't need them with the other products he has. But if your interested, one of them is called mental clarity.

Thanks so much for your time, and if you have any questions feel free to e-mail me back at enikken@crosslink.net.

Dean writes......

"I do not have ADD/ADHD nor does my daughter. However, I know many who do. I am writing because I believe I have a treatment that can help. I am a distributor for a company called Nikken. Nikken is a world leader in wellness product research and development.

Have you heard of magnetic therapy? I believe Nikken's sleep systems and other products can provide relief for many with ADD/ADHD symtoms. Please read the attachment, as it contains many positive testimonials from using Nikken products.

There is alot of information about magnetic therapy out there in the form of research and books. Magnetic therapy has been used for thousands of years by early Chinese and even Egyptians. It is real! I've experienced it personally."

Guadalupe from Brussels wrote....

"My ten-years-old son has ADD/ADHD. I bought him a Nikken bed system (pad, pillow, duvet) and in only one month the results are astonishing. His behaviour in general has changed dramatically.

Nux Vomica

This homeopathic remedy has really fired our enthusiasm. We were told by our pharmacist that we could use it for Richard (13 years old, about 10 stone (140lbs) at the time of writing in 1997) in conjunction with Ritalin, with no adverse effect. Nux Vomica is a tree that grows in China, Burma, Thailand and Australia. The fruit contains seeds which are bitter because of the poison, strychnine (no it doesn't work because it kills off the patient!!).

We tried Richard on strength 6, with some really excellent results. In fact, he had a Ritalin holiday over a school half term week, when he had nothing but Nux Vomica, one three times a day, dissolved on the tongue. He was a lot more lively than when on Ritalin, infact more like the old Richard, but without flying off into a stress/tantrum every five minutes. We didn't have one tantrum all week. Now, we do still administer Ritalin, in conjunction with the occasional Nux Vomica tablet, but only when he needs it i.e. sometimes when he's getting too 'high' at school, which is becoming less often these days. We're beginning to wonder if he can infact learn, as he seems to be doing, to do without Ritalin altogether and channel this wonderful extra energy into positive tasks. He seems to be more able to do this now that he's got his self esteem and confidence back to a much higher level.

Other members of our group have recorded similar results with their children and Nux Vomica. Several swear by it. One mum gave it to her two lads who were both awaiting diagnosis, both in their late teens, one of whom was very much a handful. The results were so dramatic, now that they have both been diagnosed, she's not stopping the use of Nux Vomica. Since we told her about Nux, she's been telling us how it's changed her and their lives and she can finally see the light a the end of a long and particularly dark tunnel. Other mums have told us similar stories. Don't get the idea that we are pushing or promoting the use of this remedy, we just told these parents who were particularly desperate and at the end of their tether, about the effect it had had on our Richard and that it might be worth considering as an option.

It is important to note that homeopathic remedies are not intended for long term use and seem to work best with people of certain metabolisms i.e. in harmony with your particular body make up, so that whilst one type of remedy might work well with a small dark haired person, it might not work so well with a large red head and so forth. Also, as with all medications, you should check with your medical practitioner before taking anything not prescribed for you. It may also be of benefit to seek the help of a qualified homeopathic practitioner who may advise alternative teatments. If you are in the UK, we have been advised that The British Homeopathic Association at 15 Clerkenwell Close London, EC1R 0AA, Tel: 020 7566 7800, can provide a national list of medical doctors who have a post-graduate training in homeopathy through the Faculty of Homeopathy (apparently the only recognised training in the UK), as well as details of NHS treatment. Alternatively, The Society of Homeopaths, 2 Artizan Road, Northampton NN1 4HU, Tel: 01604 621400 have a register of non-medically qualified homeopaths.

One last point, the suggested dose of two tablets to be dissolved on the tongue made Richard feel a bit sick so he only has one. Also, don't be put off by the claim on the pack that Nux is just for the treatment of hangovers, it's not!

Ed. Note: Please remember, we do not endorse any treatments and strongly advise you to check with your doctor before using, stopping or changing any treatment.


 


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Last Updated: February 12, 2016

Is Impotence Only a Biological Problem?

male sexual problems

Viagra doesn't preclude psychologists' integral role in the treatment of sexual dysfunction.

Urologists are inundated with inquiries about it. The news media is treating it as the hottest since Prozac.

Viagra, the pharmacological treatment for impotence, went on the market about 2 years ago amid a torrent of publicity. Its manufacturer, Pfizer, Inc., pegs the success rates as high as 80 percent. Men are expected to find the drug far more palatable than the penile implants, vacuum pumps, injections and other standard medical treatments for impotence.

Such is the way that the treatment of impotence is changing. Once thought to be a largely psychological problem, experts have since discovered that diseases such as diabetes or hypertension-or the drugs used to treat them-are often the cause of erectile dysfunction. And while talk therapy was once regarded as the first line of treatment, impotence now appears to be cured by simply popping a pill.

So where does that leave psychologists who have built careers as sex therapists? Has impotence become the domain of urologists and pharmaceutical companies, at the expense of mental health providers?

Practitioners have a variety of answers to those questions. Some say they play an integral, albeit altered role in the treatment of impotence, even in cases of physiological causes. They still conduct psychological screenings to make sure some mental problem, such as anxiety or depression, isn't behind the dysfunction. They work closely with urologists to help patients understand the suspected medical causes for their inability to perform. And they still need to help patients deal with the shame and embarrassment-and the relationship problems-that can accompany their impairment, whether it's organically based or not.


 


'The current approaches reflect an application of the biopsycho-social paradigm,' says Stewart Cooper, PhD, a Valparaiso University psychology professor who directs the school's counseling center and teaches a course in marital and sex therapy. 'It's a blending of the urological and endrocinological examination, the use of pharmacology and psychotherapy, to resolve issues surrounding sexuality and sexual performance.'

Others worry that medicine has focused on fixing the 'hydraulics' of male sexual dysfunction, at the expense of the personal and relationship problems that so often result in impotence. Leonore Tiefer, PhD, clinical associate professor of psychiatry at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, says the medical field has exaggerated the prevalence of physiologically based erectile disorders, and that organicity is not usually the cause.

'Many people say that unknown percentage of men have organic problems and 100 percent have psychological problems,' she says. 'The point is that they coexist.'

Increasing prevalence?

Urologists estimate that about 30 million American men suffer from erectile dysfunction, and many clinicians believe that number is rising. They say that trend stems from several factors:

- Men's high or exaggerated expectations about their sexual performance.

- The increasing life expectancy, which hikes the population of men who encounter age-related barriers to their erectile functioning. (Studies show that the prevalence of erectile dysfunction triples between the ages of 40 and 70.)

- New and better technology that can be used to diagnose and treat organically based impotence.

'It was once thought to be a largely psychogenic problem,' says Mark Ackerman, PhD, director of health psychology at the VA Medical Center in Atlanta and an assistant professor at the Emory University School of Medicine. 'But recent advances in diagnosis have confirmed that organic factors, such as diabetes or hypertension, confer significant independent risk for erectile dysfunction. The field of medicine now has more tools, like Doppler ultrasound that looks at penile vascular blood flow. The pendulum has now swung in the other direction. Urologists can devote whole practices to the treatment of erectile dysfunction.'

Many psychologists agree that they need to understand the biological risk factors - such as hormonal abnormalities, vascular disorders and neurological problems - that can contribute to impotence.

'I've found I need to have familiarity with fields like urology, endocrinology and geriatrics,' say Rodney Torigoe, PhD, lead psychologist at the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) offices in Honolulu. 'Those are things you don't learn in psychology training.'


But none of this precludes psychological treatment as an adjunct, if not integral part of the protocol, psychologists say. Like many medical problems, physical factors that contribute to impotence are often behaviorally based. Smoking, poor diet and lack of exercise all can lead to the vascular problems or diseases that can result in impotence.

And, even medically based factors in impotence can create problems between sexual partners that only psychologists can address.

'Relational therapy is still very important - maybe even more than before,' Ackerman says. 'Even if you fix the penis, you still have the man's psychological reaction to the medical disorder and the problems it can cause in the relationship.'

Many physicians agree with Ackerman's contention. For example, Boston University urologist Irwin Goldstein, MD, in a recent interview published in Urology Times (Vol. 25, No. 10), says he supports the National Institutes of Health standard that 'everybody with impotence needs a psychological evaluation,' conducted by a psychologist.

The technical solution

Many mental health experts lament the medicalization of sexuality as unwarranted and unfair. Tiefer says society's 'pursuit of the perfect penis' focuses more on the man, rather than the couple. Impotence treatment, by centering specifically on a man's ability to engage in intercourse, seems to ignore other aspects of sexuality and slights the woman's satisfaction in a sexual relationship, she says. And it reflects the societal pressure on men to be sexually virile, a standard that can often create performance anxiety in men, she says.

Addressing only the genital component of sexual dysfunction doesn't always guarantee great satisfaction among patients, says David Rowland, PhD, a psychology professor at Valparaiso University and senior associate at Johns Hopkins University. Just because the parts work doesn't mean the men, or their partners, are enjoying sex again, he says.


 


And the miracle medical cures may not be as miraculous as they sound, notes Leslie R. Schover, PhD, of the Cleveland Clinic Foundation. She notes that Pfizer's own clinical-trial data on Viagra shows that it is most effective for milder forms of erectile problems - such as those that are anxiety-based - and less effective for the more severe forms.

'Viagra is a threat to sex therapy precisely because it is a drug designed to take our 'best customers,'' she says. 'Instead of teaching them new skills that they can use to overcome performance anxiety, it makes them dependent on a pill that costs $10 a pop.'

The most effective treatment for men's sexual dysfunction, Ackerman says, is through closer collaboration between psychologists and urologists. Psychologists who treat men with sexual problems need to better sell their clinical abilities to urologists, Ackerman adds. Health psychologists offer skilled assessment and therapeutic techniques that can not only help urologists pinpoint any psychological or behavioral factors in a patient's sexual dysfunction, but can also help design a treatment plan and aid the patient in complying with the regimen, he says.

'The opportunities for psychologists are plentiful,' he says, 'and they've expanded significantly beyond the role of providing sex therapy.'

This article is from the American Psychological Association.

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Staff, H. (2009, January 5). Is Impotence Only a Biological Problem?, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, October 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/impotence-a-biological-problem

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